Next! Just not interested, the intention is there but no effort put forth, just spells out not interested. If you want to, you will. Experience has told me, people will “feel bad”, maybe even lie, come up with a story to not follow through to keep plans, keep an appointment, but guess what if they were that interested they would put forth the effort and make the connection or include you. Let their action be your guide. Intention is only as good as action. Period. Don’t feel bad, you did nothing wrong, the motive behind people’s effort has nothing to do with you and if it does, they are not for you. Appreciate and make the time for all the ones who have great intentions and make the effort, they are truly interested and that is genuine.